Ben was born in Sabah, Malaysia and spent much of his schooling years in Singapore. He is married to Dinah and they have enjoyed assignments as church planters and pastors. But their favourite role is being parents to their twins—Deborah and Daniel. Ben started out as an accountant before serving as senior pastor and then as pastor to pastors. Ben currently serves as Head of Sexual Wholeness with Focus on the Family Singapore. He coaches pastors and equips congregations to take an integrated approach to sexuality. He mentors people working through issues of sexuality both in opposite-sex attraction and same-sex attraction.